What’s your dirtiest sex fantasy?
Let’s be honest, most people fantasize about sex. If you don’t, then you are not normal. A fantasy can be anything from quick mental images or a long, detailed story.
The most common fantasy for both men and women? Having romantic feelings for someone while engaging in sexual activity. Yeah, you heard me right, FEELINGS are the most common fantasy. So says a study from the Journal of Sexual Medicine.
But to be fair, it was a “self-reported” Canadian study. Men and women, though, for the most part, are on the same page.
The Top Three Sex Fantasies for Women are: Having sex in a romantic location, like on a deserted beach. (84.9%) Having sex in an unusual place, such as in the office or a public toilet. (81.7%) Taking part in oral sex. (78.5%)
The Top Three Sex Fantasies for Men: Taking part in oral sex. (87.6%) Having sex with two women. (84.5%) Having sex with someone who isn’t your spouse or partner. (83.4%)
Yeah, pretty vanilla stuff really.
Want more findings from the study? Both straight men and women often fantasize about having sex with the same gender more than scientists previously thought. Domination and submission also proved to be pretty common. What’s interesting about this survey is how women can easily separate the fantasy from desire. While some admitted to imagining scenes of domination, they may NEVER want that to happen in real life. While most men, on the other hand, tend to equate fantasy with desire and see it on the same level.
So why do we fantasize at all?
Sexual fantasies for a long time were considered sinful or a sign of mental illness. Today, we see fantasies as healthy and important parts of the sexual process. For both men and women, fantasizing starts the sex juices flowing. The more sexual fantasies you have, the more sexual desire you feel. Fantasies can be a great way for couples to build trust and intimacy, either through sharing them or acting them out, and half of all couples discuss fantasies.
It’s a great way to mix up a marriage without messing up the monogamy. Talking about fantasies leads to better communication and better sex, which can lead to a happier relationship, which can lead to greater life satisfaction.
A study published in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin suggests that fantasizing about sex improves analytical reasoning! Daydreaming about love stimulates creativity. This explains all the poems, songs, and art that combine the two.
So how does all of this apply to phone sex? Well, I think that is pretty obvious! Phone sex is a safe way to share your fantasies, ALL of your fantasies, even the darker taboo ones. If you can’t share it with your spouse… then share it with us. You’ll still be monogamous and safe.
So give a boost to your biggest sexual organ, your brain.
Interested?
Phone sex is for men who want to let loose, push boundaries, and hand over control—without it spilling into their real lives. What you play out in a fantasy doesn’t have to match what you’d do in reality, and that’s exactly the beauty of it. Phone sex gives you the freedom to explore desires without strings, commitments, or consequences.
Our phone sex operators are open-minded, experienced, and ready to handle just about any fantasy you bring to the table. The best phone sex starts in your head—it’s your fantasy, but we know how to take it and drive you all the way to that explosive finish. With us, you can relax, let go, and enjoy the ride.
Our naughty, uninhibited girls don’t believe in taboos. That means your private call is truly your playground—where anything goes. So why hold back? Stroke yourself while one of our dirty talk experts leads you straight into the ultimate release.