What’s your dirtiest sex fantasy?

Let’s be honest, most people fantasize about sex.  If you don’t, then you are not normal. A fantasy can be anything from quick mental images or long detailed story.

The most common fantasy for both men and women? Having romantic feelings for someone while engaging in sexual activity. Yeah, you heard me right, FEELINGS are the most common fantasy. So says a study from the Journal of Sexual Medicine.

But to be fair it was a “self-reported” Canadian study. Men and women though, for the most part, are on the same page.

The Top Three Sex Fantasies for Women are: Having sex in a romantic location like on a deserted beach. (84.9%) Having sex in an unusual place, such as in the office or a public toilet. (81.7%) Taking part in oral sex. (78.5%)

The Top Three Sex Fantasies for Men Taking part in oral sex. (87.6%) Having sex with two women. (84.5%) Having sex with someone that isn’t your spouse or partner. (83.4%)

Yeah, pretty vanilla stuff really.

Want more findings from the study? Both straight men and women often fantasize about having sex with the same gender more than scientists previously thought. Domination and submission also proved to be pretty common. What’s interesting about this survey, is how women can easily separate the fantasy from desire. While some admitted to imagining scenes of domination, they may NEVER want that to happen in real life. While most men, on the other hand, tend to equate fantasy with desire and see it on the same level.

So why do we fantasize at all?

Sexual fantasies for a long time were considered sinful or a sign of mental illness. Today we see fantasies as healthy and important parts of the sexual process. For both men and women fantasizing starts the sex juices flowing. The more sexual fantasies you have, the more sexual desire you feel. Fantasies can be a great way for couples to build trust and intimacy, either through sharing them or acting them out, and half of all couples do discuss fantasies.

It’s a great way to mix up a marriage without messing up the monogamy. Talking about fantasies leads to better communication and better sex, which can lead to a happier relationship, which can lead to greater life satisfaction.

A study published in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletins suggests that fantasizing about sex improves analytical reasoning! Daydreaming about love stimulates creativity. Which explains all the poems, songs, and art that combine the two.

So how does all of this apply to phone sex? Well, I think that is pretty obvious! Phone sex is a safe way to share your fantasies, ALL of your fantasies, even the darker taboo ones.  If you can’t share it with your spouse… then share it with us. You’ll still be monogamous and safe.

So give a boost to your biggest sexual organ, your brain.

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Phone Sex is for men who want to open up, try new things and let someone else take the reins of control without having it affect their real lives. Things that you act out in a fantasy roleplay are not always things you’d do in your real life. That’s ok though and really what phone sex is intended for. Because calling a phone sex service isn’t an emotional commitment or intimacy to anyone, it’s fairly safe to say that you don’t have to be cautious with your desires. A phone sex operator is normally open-minded and can deal with nearly any type of fantasy. Great PHONE SEX starts with the mind…it’s YOUR fantasy but we can take over and bring you to a powerful climax! You can relax and not worry because all of our phone sex operators know how to handle any subject, topic, and fantasy. You see, our lovely horny phone sex girls do not have taboos. That means that literally, anything goes on your private and personal call. Come on, stroke your cock to a creamy climax with one of our naughty ladies that know how to deliver the ultimate in pleasure and fantasy.